Most of us experience break-ups with loved ones at sometimes in our lives. People who have been in long term relationships forget or do not realise how painful this is going to be. A break up can trigger a crazed mental state almost like a form of temporary insanity! You have to get through this period, which will pass or at least become manageable. It is the nearest thing to bereavement, in fact it can sometimes be worse, if the person leaves with someone else.
Let us just suppose after some sensible reflection that you genuinely want your Ex back! Here are a few tips which hopefully will help Get your Ex Back.
1. Give your ex space. Switch off that phone. (TEXT TERRORISM: Do you think texting 20 times a day is going to impress anyone?) Give them the gift of missing you!
2. BE COOL! Don't seem desperate, clingy or needy. This is a BIG TURN OFF and you'll only push your ex away. Keep the jealously in check especially men.
3. I don't care attitude. (Even if you are like jelly inside) Show everyone you have confidence. Believe it or not this will get your ex back interested in you.
4. Be an Adult show maturity, do try not to be a baby. Especially Men! BE A MAN. In my experience sobbing only makes you look weak, weak and pathetic. In private let it all out!
5. Go out, get on with YOUR life. Eg. Do some sport where you can hit a ball or vent your frustrastion out running or on an excercise machine at the gym. Try and get a date or at least go out with friend of opposite sex.
6. Be straight AVOID playing games. These tend to escalate.
8. Don't tell your friends everything, they may take sides. Friends might even encourage you to breakup in their own interests.
OK, None of this stuff is exactly nuclear physics but we can be easily forget what we should be doing, when feelings are running high!
If you want a comprehensive guide and strategy to getting back with your Ex. I recommend:
Let us just suppose after some sensible reflection that you genuinely want your Ex back! Here are a few tips which hopefully will help Get your Ex Back.
1. Give your ex space. Switch off that phone. (TEXT TERRORISM: Do you think texting 20 times a day is going to impress anyone?) Give them the gift of missing you!
2. BE COOL! Don't seem desperate, clingy or needy. This is a BIG TURN OFF and you'll only push your ex away. Keep the jealously in check especially men.
3. I don't care attitude. (Even if you are like jelly inside) Show everyone you have confidence. Believe it or not this will get your ex back interested in you.
4. Be an Adult show maturity, do try not to be a baby. Especially Men! BE A MAN. In my experience sobbing only makes you look weak, weak and pathetic. In private let it all out!
5. Go out, get on with YOUR life. Eg. Do some sport where you can hit a ball or vent your frustrastion out running or on an excercise machine at the gym. Try and get a date or at least go out with friend of opposite sex.
6. Be straight AVOID playing games. These tend to escalate.
8. Don't tell your friends everything, they may take sides. Friends might even encourage you to breakup in their own interests.
OK, None of this stuff is exactly nuclear physics but we can be easily forget what we should be doing, when feelings are running high!
If you want a comprehensive guide and strategy to getting back with your Ex. I recommend:
The Magic Of Making Up by T Dub Jackson
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